Hey, guys! Sorry I've been so inactive lately on Spring Break and not replying much once again... I've been spending the week with my family along with my little cousins since I haven't seen them in forever since Halloween and my brother's accident. But it was pretty fun for me to spend time with them along with my uncle since me and them are TMNT fans.XD And I'm still very excited for my brother coming back next Friday!
Ok now back today's topic or I should say a rant.... Yes I'm gonna do many of these rants for now on if I feel like I'm in that bitchy/pissy mood when I see things go wrong. OK, today's topic is something I want to get out of my chest for so long.... Like seriously, I've been dying to make a rant about this. Even my friend
made journal entries similar to this topic as well. OK if you guys ask me how I feel about kids? Well I for one do NOT hate kids, nor do I think they're perfect little angels either. Now I may feel a bit strange since I'm not the one who would take out everything on children, heck I even spent my weekend with my little cousins and they're very good kids. However, does not apply for all kids being the perfect little angels from above. Like due to what's been going on with a certain friend (whom I will not call out on this journal), I just find it so sad that her parents are too stuck in their heads to realize what little hell spawns their little children aka younger siblings had become! OK, so basically whenever I go over to visit or have a sleepover at her house and first met her siblings. I just thought they would joke around with her because we all have those siblings that get under our skins at times. However, until I went there more often, got to know them more, and even go on trips with them,,,, I never realized all the bullshit that she had to go through all her life and to this day! Like these little hell spawns mainly her little sister show no fucking respect to their, their parents, their elders, and even to me whenever I'm over there. They physically abuse the shit out of my friends and the parents don't do a single shit about all those things they fucking do. Simply because "Awwww but they're just kids, get over it and ignore them." I'm sorry but whatever parent says that, that to me has to be the most shittiest excuse of shitty parenting! They even give them what they want and when they want it even though they don't even fucking deserve all that shit they do for them!
Now this sickens me to see how her little sister treats her older sibling, abuses the hell out of her physically/mentally, and even wishes death on her just because she thinks "Oh well I'm the youngest! I do what I want so I can get away with shit!" Now this here... This seriously sickens me in the stomach whenever I hear little siblings treat the older siblings like shit and even have the balls to wish death on them! I mean, what the fucking hell?! Do you know how much of an ignorant little shithead you sound to wish death on a family member who's done so much for you! This really offends me so much because guess what?! I ALMOST LOST MY OLDER BROTHER OUT THEIR IN THAT ACCIDENT THAT I REMINDED EVERYONE ABOUT! HELL HE COULD HAVE DIED OUT THERE!!!!
Do you even see me throwing a parade/party for that major accident or injury?! HELL NO!!! I FUCKING CRIED MY EYES OUT BECAUSE I WAS WORRIED SICK ABOUT HIM TO A POINT WHERE I MIGHT HAVE GIVE UP EVERYTHING I LOVE BECAUSE SEEING SOMEBODY I LOVED THE MOST COULD HAD DIED!!!!
And I have to be honest.... There are even times we may get under each others skin even though I get along with him the most. I actually had a terrible fight with him before that whole accident started.... Man that fight wasn't even lovely I'll say.... Well more of an argument than a fight..... I even regretted saying horrible shit to him on that fight each day I look back to it...
But no, I still never wished death on him! He's my older sibling after all, and he was more than that. He was my best friend that I grew up with all these years through my childhood and even did many nice things for me, defended me whenever somebody threatens/bullies me, and even gave me advice through those terrible family crisis situations. How could I wish someone death for that? Sure my little sisters may both be a pain in my ass, mainly my preteen sister since the youngest one goes on/off like a roller coaster at times. But my God, I wouldn't wish death on them either! There was even a time where we almost lost my younger sister at the mall and I was so fucking worried and cried my eyes out because I didn't want anything bad happen to her! Even my preteen sister felt very down last night because her friend's cousin died in a car accident last night at age 15. That's like even younger than our brother so I know she has the right to be upset/feel bad about that. And what did I do? I did my best and comforted her because I really don't want to see her sad.
And what makes me even more angry about these little hell spawns is that they think they're so hardcore/unstoppable for even physically abusing their own parents by punching them whenever they slap them or discipline them. I'm not even kidding about that either, her little sister especially does this to their mom/dad and when they punish her.... She just fucking laughs and finds punishment so hilarious to think it will never happen to here in the real world.
Now I'll say this to all of you little disrespectful shits out there who find it so hilarious, awesome, or even funny to make fun of punishment and abuse their elders for entertainment out there, then your full of shit and need to have your little asses in boarding schools or sent to prison! Rules, discipline, and punishment is no fucking joke at all..... If you even treat them like this in public, then let's see what will happen if you get caught for this to a point where a court will throw your little asses in prison with deadly inmates that will beat the shit out of you until you bleed and see how hardcore you are now. Yes, I know that was extremely dark for me to say but I'm sorry... I just find that so fucking rude/disgraceful to see how they always get away with shit they're responsible for to a point where the older siblings always get blamed when they didn't even do shit at all! I mean sure when I was younger I always hated rules/discipline since my mom was fairly strict with us... Heck she even banned me and my brother from Cartoon Network as kids.(well I might disagree with her on that, but I know she didn't want us to watch adult programs at night), we couldn't even watch anything Pg-13 until we were 12 (unless if it's nothing bad like certain films marvel stuff), refuses to let us watch Restricted things until we get old enough in older teen years to handle it. We even had to show manners/respect for our elders as well. Now I seldom get grounded since I know that I didn't want to disobey my parents and so I can earn what I want. But guys.... The reason why we need rules and discipline is to help us get prepared for the real world and to take responsibility for it. So hell yeah, I'm so damn lucky my mom was fairly strict with us otherwise I might have been the biggest spoiled rich bitch today. Yes I might have made a rant about my step dad, but I had a VERY good reason for it since he seems to be in that awful path now. I might had even express how I feel when my mom or everyone else makes me feel like an outcast for wanting to be in the Gothic subculture, but who wouldn't like that even of your an adult to make those style choices? (at least she's giving me a bit of a compromise for it) But I know they love me very much and I really do show them all my honor for it. Now tell me, is it really that hard to at least tolerate your elders or show them respect? Do us all a favor and stop hating your parents, older siblings, and other elders over dumb things and grow the fuck up!
Now for the side of the rant will be the bad parenting part. OK so yes a majority of our kids in this generation do become hell spawns to a point they become bullies or even criminals. But honestly.... This isn't just their own fault, but the fact that so many parents are so damn lazy to a point where they let them do what they want and not give two shits about it! Even when other adults suggest them how to control their little hell spawns, they just get so butthurt about it and ignore that advice. I'm not even kidding, that's what so many people did to my friend's parents but they just ignore it. Now I don't hate them, I'm a bit more respectful to her mother because she did so much for us during my brother's accident. (heck she even help volunteered during his coma and got the tube out and was an old friend of my mom) However, I do believe she and her husband should at least be more strict on the children and to let them know the difference between right and wrong.(though she has a full time job so it may be hard for her to do that on her own) But honestly, her dad should be more responsible as well since he practically lets them do what they want and let them even watch what they want including adult-themed shows. I mean what the hell?! I mean no offense to any parent out there, but if you seriously let your kids watch anything that's not suitable for their age, then no shit they'll act bad from it! And no I'm not blaming everything on the media either since most parents act all hussy and blame violent video games over everything and bash the companies/creators who work their asses on them. However, the only reason why they pick up bad things from media is because you guys don't even pay attention to the ratings and parental guidences to see if they're appropriate for their age to handle. Even when I watch things like Sgt. Frog aka Kuroro Gunso or Psych with my youngest sister... I always watch the episodes first to see she can handle it. Even if that show does say bad words, I remind her that it's still never okay to use those words at her age.
Now the reason why her father gets less strict about the things they watch or do is simply because his mother was even strict with him during his childhood and he even started to take those rules for granted and doesn't even pass it on to his kids. I'm sorry, but these are YOUR Kids... it's still YOUR responsibility to discipline them and help them prepare for reality. You parents out there can't just sit on your ass all day without even taking care or watching after your children. And if you let them watch R-rated films just because you want to watch that film has to be the most selfish thing to do! Yes, I may not like the fact that my mom banned me from Cartoon Network during my childhood, yes I may not like how she didn't let me watch certain things at a young age, yes she was strict..... But my God, if I ever had children I would NEVER EVER ignore discipline because what I've been through my childhood. And yes, even to all those horny teen parents out there who couldn't even close their fucking legs or wear a condom while fucking around not being aware of pregnancy/punishment... You still have responsibility for these children and have to make up for it. (however, this does not apply to rape victims because it's not their fault for going through all that shit) And if you parents even think about treating your kids like your friends because your afraid they'll hate you, then you all need to wake up and treat them like your children than your friends! Now there's nothing wrong with being close to your children, just don't treat them anything more than that. And I'm sure you guys would have gain more respect from your kids than now.
Again, this journal does
NOT apply to all children and their parents since there are still many good ones out there.... And it's not just because of my friends current situation either. This pretty much
ONLY goes to children who are very disrespectful along with their care-free parents just because they think that can do what they wand and get what they want without these rules.
And for the last time.... I do
NOT hate kids, since I do show a big soft spot for them. But I
ONLY to well-behaved kids who have parents that discipline and care or them very well. Not sure if I really want kids in the future since that's too much responsibility, but if I do end up having some.... Then I will still show responsibility for it. I just find it so dad that today's society doesn't even give a single fuck about rules and punishment now....
Okay I'm just finally glad that I got this off of my chest now...
------------------------
Journal CSS made by
katyanoctis
